How to talk to anyone
Here are some Techniques to have successful conversation with anyone, any time! These techniques will help you chat confidently at social parties and business meetingđ
I have recently completed the book how to talk to anyone by leil Lowndes! Beautiful book were I never felt bored and felt to read this book again.
Here are some of the best techniques from the book that can make you chat confidently with anyone, anytime! đ
đ ââď¸Technique #1- Kill the Quick âMe, Too!â
Whenever you have something in common with someone, the longer you wait to reveal it, the more moved (and impressed) he or she will be. You emerge as a confident big cat, not a lonely little stray, hungry for quick connection with a stranger. P.S.: Donât wait too long to reveal your shared interest or it will seem like youâre being tricky.
â¨Technique #2 - The Swiveling Spotlight
When you meet someone, imagine a giant revolving spotlight between you. When youâre talking, the spotlight is on you. When the new person is speaking, itâs shining on him or her. If you shine it brightly enough, the stranger will be blinded to the fact that you have hardly said a word about yourself. The longer you keep it shining away from you, the more interesting he or she finds you.
đ¨âđ¤Technique #3 - The better you know someone, the more specific you should be in your praise.
One of the most common tips to get along well is to give people compliments. Thatâs true, but according to Leil, there are some misconceptions around the idea of praise, especially when it comes to when and how to deliver it. As a rule of thumb, the more you know and appreciate someone, the more detailed and frequent you can be in telling them.
For example, if youâre working together with someone for the first time, tell a mutual colleague to let them know they did great. If you do it personally, make it indirect, for example by stating their achievement as a fact and then asking them how they did it. Or ask for their opinion, which is something that makes us feel valued every time.
If you know someone well, like a close friend or someone youâre keen on dating, you can commend them for their performance right after an important event. And for the most special people in your life? Highlight their best, specific traits you admire. Maybe itâs their sense of humor, maybe itâs their humility, but life is short, so let those closest to you know why you love them in many ways.
âQuote:-
When you act as through you like someone, you start to really like them. - lein Lowndes
Vocabulary:-
âFrivolity:-silliness, childness , lack of seriousness.
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